“The LORD God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.” – Genesis 2:18
Welcome to Heart2Heart devotional for singles and married. Here are clear signs that show you that you’re with the wrong woman. Take heed of each one of these signs. Just because your woman displays one of these signs, doesn’t mean that she’s a bad apple. But you need to be mindful of these signs as a whole, and ensure that you don’t go down a bad road.
1.If she’s controlling who you hang out with, where you go, what you wear, what to say, and what not say, you are with the wrong woman.
2. If you find yourself as the main source of her happiness, then you will also be the source of her unhappiness. God should
3. Is she extremely critical of you and your choices? Is she always making fun of you, your ideas, and your appearance? This shows she doesn’t respect you. Avoid such a lady. Run for your life.
4. If you cannot be yourself around her and find yourself having to walk on eggshells to avoid confrontations, you are already in trouble.
5. If she doesn’t spend money on you but she has no problem spending it on herself, or her friends then she doesn’t value you and might just be selfish.
6. If she talks about her ex a lot, then she hasn’t gotten over him. You are at risk sir
7. If she never apologizes or takes responsibility for her mistakes, then she is exhibiting a major character flaw, and thinks she is never wrong. If she is always right, then that means you are always wrong. Sir, run for your life
8. If she never has time for you then she is too busy to be in a relationship.
9. If she is rude to people around her then she is not a very good person. How she treats others is a glimpse into how she will also treat you.
10. If she is a big flirt, beware. Every woman likes a little attention, but if it’s constant, that’s a sign of danger.
11. If she doesn’t trust you when you’ve not given her a reason to, then she has trust issues or isn’t trustworthy herself. You will regret if you marry her
12. If she doesn’t get along with her mother, she lacks maturity and respect for authority. You won’t be safe with her
13. If she drinks and smokes, this is a sign of escapism and carnality. Review your commitment to her.
14. If she is lazy, tired for no reason, the house is unclean, dishes are in the sink and she doesn’t mind – this is a turn-off and a premonition of what’s coming.
15. If she has cheated before, then she is very likely to cheat again.
16. If she has daddy issues, then she has no idea how to be in a relationship with a man. She will berate and belittle your masculinity and role as the man in the relationship.
17. Being possessive is quite natural in a relationship and every man enjoys this deep in their heart. But, if your girl is over possessive, this is one of the important signs you are dating the wrong girl. God bless you
CONFESSION OF THE DAY: The fat of the land where I live will come to me in Jesus name
DISCUSSION OF THE DAY: What more quality did I not include in this write up?
PRAYER OF THE DAY: Ask God to deliver you from every Jezebel and Delilah who has potential to destroy your life in Jesus name.
Dr Andy Kwakpovwe
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