Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body. 1Cor 6:18
Welcome to Heart2Heart devotional. Thanks for following me all through the different test of love. I sure do hope this series has blessed you. Don’t forget to follow me on all my social media handle below. Now let’s continue from where we stopped and today, we are looking at the excitement test.
THE EXCITEMENT TEST: Do you feel excited about spending time together without touching and romancing or must kissing, touching and smooching be part of your relationship while you are both unmarried?”
PEN THIS DOWN: Many singles only enjoy spending time together as long as there will be touching and romancing. Some even use sex as a prerequisite to being in the relationship. Beware of such dangerous singles
Are you in love with your spouse as a person, or you are in love with them because of the excitement you get from touching, kissing and having sex with them? If sex is no more a part of this relationship, will you still love and commit to them?
If their love and commitment toward you and the relationship dwindles, slacks and reduces because you told them enough of the sex, then they have never loved you in the first place. There were merely committed because of how your flesh satisfies their sexual flesh.
They were merely in love with your container or body and not because they love your person. If this lady slacks in her commitment toward you because you told her you can’t meet her financial needs for the moment, then she has never really loved you.
In order to see which it is, stop the touching, petting and the necking and determine to reserve all of these until your wedding. Sir, temporarily deny meeting her basic needs just to see if she will walk away or stick with you.
If your mate is merely excited about your body and the sex they get, they will cut you off when you deny them your body and sex. As a man, understand that ladies of this generation define love as money. They only stick as long you can supply their needs according to your riches in the bank. Beware of such Jezebels.
If she’s overwhelming you with her financial needs, you may have fallen for a Delilah who wants to cut off the seven locks of your hair. If all that excite you about them is their body curves, body shape, cars, money and not their character, you are very dangerous to be with and know nothing about love.
Both of you must grow beyond the excitement stage. If you can stop the kissing, necking and the heavy petting’s and still be committed to each other, then its real love. Sex is not a sign of love and vice versa. You must both pass the excitement test to be sure it’s real love or not. God bless you.
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PRAYER OF THE DAY: Ask God to help you move past any form of kissing, petting and sexual relationship with your spouse. Ask for grace to build a holy relationship with your spouse unto God. And if you are not yet engaged, ask God for one now. He will do for you this miracle.I Remain Your constant Friend,Dr Andy KwakpovweFollow me on Twitter@drandykwas, Instagram@dr.andykwas, FB@ Heart2Heart with Dr Andy and WhatsApp @0803206390