Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness? II Corinthians 6:14
Welcome to Heart2Heart devotional. Today we are going to continue from where we stopped in this series. When Love become dangerous, then it’s time to quit and let it go. Here are more signs to know when it’s time to quit a relationship.
WHEN YOU ARE DATING AN UNBELIEVER. Most Christians who hang onto a non-believer actually think they are the best chance that their unsaved date will ever have for knowing Jesus. Don’t be deceived.
If you’re a believer dating an unsaved person, your date has not only rejected the Lord but also the Lord living in you. Therefore, he or she does not want ALL of you! You are God’s, and He is jealous for you.
Any emotional attachment you have toward a person who is not on the same spiritual page as you, or vice versa, is an unhealthy attachment. Read and learn from those such as Samson of the Bible, and do now what you’ll otherwise wish you would have done later. Heed God’s Word, and be not unequally yoked. Yes, that means break up and move on.
CONSISTENT WARNING SIGNALS: The Bible say, “A word aptly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver. Like an earring of gold or an ornament of fine gold is a wise man’s rebuke to a listening ear.” Proverbs 25:11-12
Before something bad happens to you, God will always alert you through consistent warning signals. Your warning signals could be from a friend, a pastor, a book you just read or a Tv program you just listened to.
Have you ever turned on the television or radio to catch a sermon, song, or message seemingly written specifically for you? That was a warning signal. Rather than take a defensive approach to their input, consider what you are being told and do what God is telling you to do.
If there are people in your life who has been talking or speaking into your life and you know that what they are saying is consistent with God’s Word spoken in love, then God’s mighty hand prompting you to turn from your plans, and take a better path.
Consistent strong warning or advice from friends or even strangers are red flags God has lovingly placed in your life to warn you of trouble up ahead! It might even be this devotional you are reading right now. Listen. Learn. Be smart. Break up. Get out of the danger zone.
FEAR KEEPS YOU FROM BREAKING OFF THE RELATIONSHIP. If you have consistent doubt and fear about the person you are dating, please slow down and let go of this relationship.
James T. Draper wrote, “Doubt never means yes and always means no or wait a while: God does not lead through doubt. If you can’t get peace, that is an answer.”
When God opens the door for marriage in your life, you will know that you know you are with the right person. If you aren’t 100 percent certain, you’d better take a time-out from the relationship and pray for God to clearly confirm His will!
If you choose to ignore the unrest in your spirit and continue on with this person, what comes next will be series of excuses why you can’t let go! Don’t justify staying in a relationship you’ll wish you had abandoned later.
In the dating world, thoughts like, “I can’t break up because…,” mean that doubt has given the keys to fear which will drive you down a rough road containing potholes of confusion and bumps of anxiety.
If that’s not enough, your joy tank will eventually read empty. If you are travelling down doubt path and you are pondering whether or not to proceed in your current dating relationship, then know that “FAITH AND PEACE mean GO ON and DOUBT AND FEAR means STOP!” God bless you
CONFESSION OF THE DAY: My Days Of Pity Are Over In Jesus Name
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PRAYER OF THE DAY: Lord, deliver me from making stupid relationship mistakes that can ruin my life in Jesus name.